Valentine’s day a feast loved by some but hated by many ( mostly singles ). As this day approaches many may suffer from the valentines day blues , myself included but as i was in the shower thinking and contemplating about life in general as i usually do , I came to the realisation that although I may not have a boyfriend , I am still loved by my family and friends and that’s what this day should be all about LOVE , not only by someone we’re attracted to or our significant other but about sharing love among each other and it shouldn’t be only for a day.
Us single girls/boys , although we may not be able to take part in the traditions that comes with valentine’s day such as going to a romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant or exchanging gifts , we shouldn’t have to be alone and we shouldn’t feel lonely and sad either , instead go out for cocktails or partying , pamper yourself ( a nice bath , paint your nails , relax ) , indulge in junk food ( pizza works perfectly in this case ) and chocolate or watch a movie ( Fifty Shades of Grey ?! ) make yourself feel happy and loved because if you don’t love yourself then who will ?!
As much as it sucks being alone on this day where wherever you look all you see people being all lovey dovey , its better than being with the wrong person , our time will come as well but for now we have love from family and friends . The year has 365 days , only 1 of them is for the couples as for us we have the rest of the year to celebrate !
As for those out there who are planning to spend this special day with their partners , make sure you make it special and memorable .. by telling them how much you appreciate them by the best romantic gesture , like for example fill their room full of heart shaped balloons and write a message on each, or maybe write a good old love letter were you pour out you heart and feelings that you may sometimes take for granted to say. You can also bake some goodies as everyone knows the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach (brownie recipe to be up soon on fondue.blogspot.com) you can also cook a romantic dinner and fill the house with candles for that romantic movie atmosphere . There are various gestures one can do that will sure make yours and your loved ones valentine’s day memorable and filled with love, hugs and kisses .
So if you’re reading this and you’re single , remember this day is no different than any other day , there far more things to be upset about than not to have a valentine , some people they don’t have a mother on mother’s day or a father on father’s day , just because you don’t have a boyfriend/girlfriend that doesn’t make you lonely , You have plenty of people who loves you and not only on valentine’s day . Chin up and go buy yourself a present and chocolates cause’ you deserve it :)
This post is not beauty or fashion related but I hope that it helped and made you feel better :)
Happy Valentine’s Day / Single awareness day to all , even if it’s a party with friends and vodka !
Just rememeber someone somewhere loves you and is dying to meet you and spend the rest of their life with you xxxxxx
Lots of love , Dulcie and Courtney .
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